When relocating, remember...

I am no expert on the subject of relocation; in fact, every step of the process has been instructive for me.  I am learning as I go.  Here's a few observations about the process.

1.  It's hard to be doubly-focused--on what you are moving from and what you are moving towards.  Because both for us are good places to be, we are discovering the need to grieve what we are leaving behind and to focus on what lays ahead.  For example, we are leaving dear friends, a beautiful home and a wonderful church...but we are moving towards family, grandchildren...and the ocean!

2.  It's a challenge to get agreement from your friends and family.  Each one has a vested interest in you and an idea about what might be the best course to follow.  Listen to them--hear their wise counsel--but, in the end, you must ask, "What is best for us?" and "How is God leading us?"  Granted, there is an aire of subjectivity that cannot be ignored, but, truthfully, we want to follow where we sense God is leading.

3.  It's a nightmare to look at the whole picture at once; in fact, it can swallow you up with fear and anxiety.  Yes, a comprehensive view is important but a step-by-step approach makes the process less ominous.  For us, that translates today into this.  We have to sell our house--that's our primary concern. The rest of the issues--packing, garage sales, how to move our stuff, work parties, etc.--those we can address when the time comes.  

4.  It's important to stay on point.  "What's our objective?" "Why did we decide to do this in the first place?"  Sometimes we lose sight of that and overwhelmed by the details, we become inundated with the demands of the process, and forget what motivated us in the first place.  We want to be near some of our grandchildren and more free to visit the others--and we want discretionary time to serve the Lord in a variety of settings in this season of our life.  Hence, our relocation.

5.  It's invigorating to stop and give thanks.  God has been so faithful to us throughout our lives and when we remember that no obstacle before us seems insurmountable.  

If you're pondering relocation, or, like us, are in the process, remember these things that may help you, as they are helping us, walk through a  process that presents some unique challenges.