Tips for avoiding the "morning after Christmas" blues

COACHING TIPS
What About Christmas Spending?

1. Make Christmas lists. Keep the list reflective of who you really want to give to, not necessarily those to whom you feel obligated because they will be giving a gift to you.

2. In some cases a personal message on a greeting card is more valuable than a purchased gift.

3. Consider setting a limit on each gift selection that fits your budget (for example, start out by determining the total funds available and then divide by the number of gifts to be purchased).

4. DO NOT USE CREDIT CARDS. Buy only what your cash spending budget allows. This will deflect the post-Christmas blues.

5. Can you make gifts? This would defray your costs. Homemade cookies, homemade ornaments, personal art work (not me!), etc.

6. If you are sending gifts, consider (a) drop shipping if ordered online and (b) ship in bulk (send a group of presents to one address at one time).

7. What about identifying a worthwhile project for those who are needy and sending donations in lieu of gifts? Invite your family to participate. (Probably would not work for children and grandchildren…?)

8. Gift-giving should be about the expression of the sentiment of love. A gift should not be given in place of a verbal expression of love.

9. The exchange of gifts should not be the centerpiece of the Christmas season; the celebration of the greatest gift of all—Jesus—should be the focal point.

10. Be sure to say “thank you” for all gifts received—either face-to-face, when possible, or in written acknowledgement of the receipt of a gift.